Tuesday proved to be quite a challenging day for the Team. One of Pastor Raj congregation, a 17 year old girl, committed suicide the Tuesday before we arrived. She was a committed member of the church no one knows why she took her own life.
Raj shared this information yesterday (Tuesday) with our Team. He asked if any of our young people wanted to come to a prayer meeting Raj was holding with the family in the families house. Kirsty, Stacey and Laura immediately said they would like to attend. Iain, Owen and Minty went into Raj church a played the instruments and entertained the children. They did a very good job.
On reflection this must have been a most difficult time for both Raj and Vanitha. Having to welcome us but at the same time dealing with a most horrific circumstance.
The girls, David and I went with Raj to the prayer meeting. On arrival the whole family were there. We found out the Mothers husband had passed away two years ago. Prayers were said for the family. An interpreter was there to help us understand what was going on. Raj shared comforting words with the family. David was then asked to read a passage from the bible and I was asked to pray for the family.
We all found this an extremely challenging and difficult thing to face after all Kirsty and Stacey are the same age with the girl who took her own life.
Keep the team in your prayers as we face these particular challenging situations. The contrast between our experience last night and the Kennedy School today is vast and a huge mix of emotions.
Please keep the grieving family in your prayers. The girl who died is Velankanni.
The Mother’s name is Chandra Mary
Eldest Brother – Maria Das (He does not go to church)
Second Brother — Suresh Third Brother — Thangaraj
Fourth Brother — Pawnraj the youngest sister is Jayanthi.
All these are actively involved in the Church.
Just to give you an idea of what it means to Pastor Raj and his ministry team here in Chennai, that our/your young people from Scotland have taken the time to come to Chennai and be interested in the work going on here. They do need support not just financially but prayerfully too.
Here is a wee excerpt from an email he sent me just yesterday.
May God protect you all
and work in and through you and continue to keep you a blessing
to this land. The Scottish stalwarts have contributed so much for
the welfare of our land, especially Chennai. You are truly
God-sent at point of time. All that you accomplish here
will go into history and into the Book of Remembrance with
our Lord. God bless you all.
I just can’t put into words what it means to the people here in Chennai that our young people have come. I am extremely proud of they way Kirsty, Stacey, Laura, Owen, Iain and Minty.
Our young people, have conducted themselves in the places we have visited. They are being true ambassadors for not only St Andrews Church, Bo’ness but young people of Scotland.
David and I are overwhelmed daily by the way they are coping by what they see and the things they are aske to do. ie pray for people of the various churches we visit. The begging lady at the mini bus window is just one example of how hard it is to feel hopless and unable to help. These experiences will change their lives forever.
Oh and if only you could see their faces when someone adds a comment to the blog!! haha. You would think it was Christmas day!! Thank you.
David and Lilias
:o)